Without dragging each other to therapy, forcing awkward date nights that fizzle out, or pretending everything’s “fine.”
The Lasting Love Manual is your science-backed, partner-friendly way to rebuild connection, reignite intimacy, and feel like us again — even if it’s been years.
Dr. Marisa Kent, LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
"The Lasting Love Manual" is one of the most refreshingly practical and emotionally intelligent relationship guides I’ve encountered in over a decade of practice. Eva Thornbury has distilled what many therapists spend years trying to teach into a format that is both engaging and doable for everyday couples.
Over time, an invisible drift can eat away at your connection — not with a big fight, but with tiny moments of disconnection you barely notice.
Meanwhile, life — kids, work, routines — quietly takes center stage, while intimacy, laughter, and real conversations slip into the background.
This guide reveals another path. Instead of letting the distance grow wider, you’ll learn simple, proven steps to rebuild emotional safety, reignite desire, and feel like a true team again — without needing therapy, grand gestures, or perfect timing.
It’s time to move from silent coexistence to active reconnection — with small changes that create real, lasting love.
The strongest couples don’t rely on grand gestures or therapy marathons. They use simple, science-backed habits that create lasting closeness — even during life’s busiest seasons. This manual gives you the exact tools they use to stay emotionally connected, even years into marriage.
Most couples don’t fall apart in one big moment — they slowly grow distant over time. Emotional closeness fades year by year, especially around the 7–10 year mark. This guide shows you how to catch that drift early and rebuild intimacy before it slips further — with small steps that restore safety, spark, and connection.
Life has a way of using up your time, energy, and attention — leaving little for love. Over time, that emotional “withdrawal” adds up. This guide shows you how to reinvest in your relationship with small, daily deposits of affection, attention, and trust — and get real returns.
Think you don’t have time to reconnect? You do. This guide shows you how just a few minutes a week — a short talk, a micro-ritual, a new habit — can pull your relationship out of autopilot and back into real emotional intimacy. It’s not about doing more. It’s about doing the right things, simply and consistently.
Right after your purchase, you'll receive all the link to download all 8 love changing chapters!
The Science of Fading Love: Passion vs Companionate Love and Why chemistry changes
You’re Not Alone: The Roommate Syndrome
Why Fixing This Feels So Hard: Emotional avoidance vs active repair
The 4 Stages of Rebuilding
Mindset Shifts That Save Relationships: You're not broken, you're disconnected
The First Conversation That Changes Everything
Daily Micro-Moments of Love: 2-minute habits with 10x impact
The Emotional Map Exercise
Breaking the Silence: Relearning Real Talk
Desire Is Built, Not Found: The Myth of Spontaneous Passion
The Turn-On Triggers Inventory
Flirting With the Familiar: How to bring back playful tension
Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy Without Pressure
The Weekly Relationship Reset: 30-minute ritual to stay emotionally connected
How to Make Time (When You Don’t Have Time)
Novelty Is Not a Vacation — It’s a Mindset
When They Don’t Want to Try: Scripts for Inspiring and not Pressuring
Fighting Fair and Repairing Well: The 3 Stages of a Healthy Disagreement
When You’ve Drifted Too Far…
Rituals of Connection: Daily, weekly, monthly bonding templates
Annual Love Review
Real Couples, Real Comebacks
50 Relationship Conversation Starters
The 20 Practices Tracker
Verified Review
34, Chicago IL
This saved us from the edge of giving up. We were on the verge of splitting. Silence had become our norm. Then I read Eva’s words: “You’re not broken. You’re disconnected.” That hit hard. We used the “I Miss Us” script and for the first time in months, my partner actually opened up. It wasn’t magic — it was momentum. And we needed that.
Verified Review
Portland, OR
I came in skeptical, tired of generic advice and “date night” clichés. But The Lasting Love Manual isn’t fluff. It’s research-backed, deeply human, and shockingly practical. Instead of making me feel like I’d failed, it showed me how love just changes — and how to catch it before it slips away. The Emotional Map Exercise alone changed the way my partner and I talk. Real talk, not just roommate logistics.
Verified Review
Married 22 years
After two decades together, we didn’t think we were in trouble — but we weren’t growing either. This book didn’t just give us tools, it gave us language. We now do a Monthly Mini-Adventure and our first “Annual Love Review” made us laugh, cry, and feel like we were just starting out. Every couple deserves this manual.
Verified Review
41, Dallas TX
My wife asked me to read “just the first chapter.” I stayed up and finished half the book. It’s not preachy or loaded with therapy-speak. It’s like someone finally explained what I’d been feeling — but couldn’t name. Every page felt like, “Wait… this is us.” Highly recommend for anyone who's ever felt like their relationship just started fading quietly.
With this ebook, you’ll get immediate access to gentle, practical tools to reconnect, rebuild trust, and feel close again — even if things have felt off for a while.
It’s not about perfect relationships. It’s about real ones — and having the right support to grow through what most couples were never taught.
For a limited time, the full toolkit is available at a deeply discounted price. If something’s been missing… this might be your moment to quietly begin again.
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Full 45 Page The Lasting Love Manual PDF
BONUS 1: 50 Conversation Starters
Not sure how to reconnect or get past the small talk?
This guide gives you 50 simple, real questions that open the door to laughter, closeness, and conversations that actually matter. Use them over coffee, on a walk, or right before bed — and watch connection come back, one honest moment at a time.
BONUS 2: 20 Practices Tracker
Big changes don’t happen overnight — they happen in small, repeated ways.
This tracker helps you build momentum with one gentle reconnection practice per week. No pressure. Just a quiet way to grow your bond, week by week, with tools that fit real life.
It shows you how to stop drifting apart and start reconnecting — emotionally, physically, and day-to-day. You’ll learn simple, science-backed practices that bring back emotional safety, intimacy, and that feeling of being on the same team.
Nope. Every chapter is packed with data, real examples, and small, doable actions. This isn’t about fixing your partner. It’s about understanding the patterns that disconnect you — and what to do about it.
That’s okay. You can start solo. Many readers begin the process on their own and gently shift the tone in their relationship — no pressure, no pleading. Sometimes one small change from you opens the door for both of you.
Some couples feel a shift after just one conversation. For others, it builds over a few weeks. It’s not about speed — it’s about creating safe, consistent signals that you’re ready to reconnect. That’s when change sticks.
This guide doesn’t replace therapy — but it fills a gap most couples never get help with: the quiet disconnection that builds over time. It gives you a roadmap when things feel “off,” not broken. And it helps you take small steps without needing a third party to mediate.
This is for anyone in a long-term relationship who feels like the spark has faded — not because the love is gone, but because life got in the way. Married, partnered, co-parents, busy professionals — this is for real people in real relationships.
If you read it, try the tools, and still feel stuck — you haven’t failed. Some connections need more support, or a different path forward. But most readers find that even one shift — one safe conversation, one honest question — creates enough space to try again.
While we can’t offer refunds on digital products, we’re confident in the value this guide brings. It’s built for real life — not perfection. If you show up with curiosity and try even a few of the tools, you’ll likely notice small shifts that create bigger changes over time. Still unsure? Start with one chapter. One moment. One question. That’s often all it takes to begin a quiet turning point.